A Divided Life

a memoir of hiding from myself, survival, and becoming whole

What happens when survival requires silence?

Growing up in a small Midwestern town in the 1970s and 1980s, Todd Boler learned early that certain truths could not be spoken aloud. Shaped by family expectations, faith, and unspoken rules, he adapted the only way he knew how—by dividing himself in order to endure.

A Divided Life is a deeply...

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